做个女强人还是做个男人背后的女人？

Do you want to be a dragon lady or a woman behind your man?

无论热恋还是婚后，都应该各自有一片空间，以夫为天的时代已经过去了。但是作为一起生活的两个人，在关键时候，还是要互相支持、体贴、理解、依靠！

Whether in hard hit or in marriage, both men and women should have their own space, and the times when men were regarded as the god has passed away. However, as two persons living together, in key time, they still need to mutually support, care, understand and rely on.

有些女人直率自立心胸宽广，这种女人最大特点能让家庭稳定，在漫长的一生中，有太多的沟沟坎坎，而心宽的人愿意为这做出牺牲，完全真实的一面展现给你，她不会当面一套，背后一套玩把戏。她们实在，自立，有信用，最主要的是她能对你认可和最大的尊重。

Some women are candor, self-independence and large-hearted, and the biggest characteristic of them is to make family stable. Our long life is full of

frustrations; this kind of women would like to sacrifice to the family. They will always show their true face to you without playing some tricks behind you.

还有些女人给你相依相伴的感觉，而这些女人大多长相普通，没有太多欲望，踏踏实实地生活，老公不愿意处理的人事都由老婆出面，还要生孩子、孝敬父母、稳固家庭后方的阵地，这种女人是男人后半辈子特别好的伴儿。当你心情闷生活颓废时，她可以会跟你坐下来聊聊天，相互沟通，从不会有务何的指责。

Some other women will make you feel depend on each other. For most of the time, they have common appearance and they are not ambitious but to live steadfastly. They will deal with the things that their husbands don’t want to handle. They will also give birth to children, support their parents and make the whole family a good state. This kind of women are the best partners for men in the second half of their life. When you come across depravation, they would sit down with you chatting and communicating, who would never scold you.

面对这个话题，女人也是有话说的：

About this topic, women have their own ideas:

言论一：做男人背后的女人好，但必须这个男人在你面前听你的，在其他人面前听他自己的，也就是这个男人要有主见，女主内男主外，女人确保男人后方的战场稳固。

Point 1: To be a woman behind the man is good, but he must be a strong-minded man. The woman focuses on family while the man focuses on career.

言论二：女人要有自己的一片天地，不能完全依靠了男人，但也要为男人做好稳固的后盾。